How to Choose Pallbearers
When you start making arrangements for a traditional funeral service, one of the things you will have to consider is the people you will choose as pallbearers. Not many people pay attention to this part of the funeral, and it can many times end up as a last minute decision. This does not have to be the case. When you start planning the funeral, it can be a good idea to consider the people you want as pallbearers. Delmar, NY funeral home directors can tell you what to keep in mind when making this decision.
It is important to know what a pallbearer does before you decide on the people for the service. Pallbearers will usually bring the casket into the church or funeral hoe and then lead it out to the car that will transport it to be buried. By knowing what they are used for, you will be able to make the best possible decision on who is appropriate for the job.
Both men and women can be pallbearers. In the past, men were usually the choice for this, but these days, more and more women are taking it upon themselves to help carry the casket to its resting place. There are usually six pallbearers for a regular casket, since most traditional caskets have three handles on each side. Sometimes, especially with larger caskets, there are handles for two extra pallbearers, if they are needed.
When choosing a pallbearer, you need to look for someone who was a close friend or relative. They also need to be someone who can withstand the service without breaking down and who will be able to do the work of lifting the casket. This is not as easy as it may sound. If someone gets very emotional during the service, they may not have the strength to carry the casket. If someone is really struck with grief, they may not be the best choice for this kind of task.
It can be a good idea to speak with the people you are considering for the task and see what they feel. It is an honor to be a pallbearer, but not everyone may be ready to do it. You will also want to consult with your family to see whom they suggest.
When choosing a pallbearer for a funeral service, you need to find people who have the emotional wherewithal to be able to carry the casket after the service. A funeral can be truly emotional and harrowing and not everyone will be able to have the strength to carry the casket. When you make a decision about the pallbearers that you want, be sure to speak with them and see if they feel comfortable with the task. You can learn more about this by contacting a funeral home in Delmar, NY. At McVeigh Funeral Home, Inc. we are here to help you through any decision you need to make. Visit us at 208 N Allen St Albany, NY 12206 or call us now at (518) 489-0188.
